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Buddy Statements: Questions & Answers
Your records rarely tell the whole story. A statement from someone who was there, or who lives with you now, can fill in what the paperwork missed.
- What they prove
- Who should write
- Which forms
- Making them count
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What Can a Buddy Statement Prove?
What the writer personally saw: a training accident at Fort Riley, a hard landing, the blast that rattled your vehicle, how you limped afterward, how your sleep and temper changed when you got home. They can’t diagnose, but the VA treats firsthand observations as competent evidence.
Who Should Write One, and on What Form?
People you served with, your spouse, family, and coworkers each see different parts of the picture. Witnesses typically use VA Form 21-10210 (Lay/Witness Statement); your own statement usually goes on VA Form 21-4138.
How Do I Make It Count?
- Say how the writer knows you, and for how long.
- Give specifics: what, when and where.
- Stick to firsthand knowledge.
- Use the writer’s own words; identical statements look coordinated.
- Sign and date it.
Buddy Statement Q&A: Common Questions
Can my wife or husband write a buddy statement?
Yes. Spouses are often the best witnesses to how symptoms affect daily life, sleep and mood.
Does it need to be notarized?
Usually not. The VA form includes a signed certification that the statement is true.
What if I can’t reach anyone from my unit?
Family, friends and coworkers can describe what they’ve seen since service, which still helps.
Can a statement replace medical evidence?
No. It supports your claim, but a diagnosis and usually a medical opinion are still needed.
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